Most people think puppy behaviors are so darn cute — chewing on shoes and hands, jumping up on us and guests — that they don’t think to teach them how to behave appropriately early on. In reality, this lack of teaching appropriate ways of being is unintentionally reinforcing these unwanted behaviors and why they grow into them, not out of them. The only reason for puppies to become destructive chewers, be out of control, jump on people or playfully bite us is because we don’t start teaching appropriate behaviors right away.

Train from Day One

Puppies are growing and able to learn at a very early age. In fact, training begins the minute we bring puppies into our lives at 8 weeks of age. The myth that training puppies shouldn’t start until they are 6 months old couldn’t be farther from the truth. The myth gained traction because puppy classes didn’t begin until puppies were fully vaccinated, and this didn’t happen until they were 6 months of age, in the days of old. Thankfully, over the past decades, we have gleaned much about the importance of early puppy development, enrichment, socialization and training.

Today, thanks to studies by veterinary behaviorists and dog experts, we now realize the importance of early training and socialization, beginning as soon as they are able to see and hear, at about 3 weeks of age. Some more ethical breeders are even starting the process before dogs go into their new homes. They are learning from their littermates, mother, their environment and their caregivers how to be a dog, socialize with each other, other species and, of course, us. This early training continues from the moment we bring them home, through to maturity, between 1½ to 3 years of age.

What this means is that puppies are learning appropriate and inappropriate behaviors based on how we are raising/teaching them, in these early weeks. It’s up to us, as their guardians and advocates, to teach them the behaviors we want rather than correcting behaviors that we don’t want.

The right environment

Puppies explore their world through their noses and mouths. You can say that puppies see their world via their noses. Those noses are capable of smelling up to 100,000 times better than humans, and we need to allow for this by creating a safe and enriching smell-sensitive environment. Often, what puppies smell goes directly into their mouths; that’s why puppy-proofing your home before he arrives is crucial to properly raising a puppy.

What many may perceive as bad behaviors are just normal puppy exploration behaviors that need to be redirected to behaviors that we do want instead of thinking that we need to punish them for normal, instinctive puppy behaviors.

Common puppy behaviors

✤ Playful biting: Puppies play with each other by biting and wrestling with their littermates, and when they leave their littermates this behavior doesn’t just go away. This is normal, natural and instinctive play, and when we wrestle with them, allowing them to bite even playfully, we are actually encouraging a behavior that will bite us in the butt (pun intended) later on.

Since playful biting is a normal and necessary behavior, it would behoove us to make sure that we give our puppies ample one-on-one dog play time, so they have the opportunity to behave like a normal puppy and wrestle with other puppies, which will help them not do this instinctive and necessary playful biting on us.

✤ Destructive chewing: Destructive chewing is not synonymous with raising puppies. Because puppies see their world through their noses and mouths, they will put anything and everything in their mouths. If we don’t properly supervise them and offer them appropriate toys and chews to chew on, we are unintentionally reinforcing a normal behavior to become a destructive behavior.

✤ Jumping on people: Puppies jump all over their littermates, so for them it’s normal play behavior. A puppy flying through the air, leaping into our laps is laughed at and then snuggled, unintentionally reinforcing a behavior that we will later regret.

Tips to stop these unwanted behaviors

✔ Playful biting: Provide an outlet for your puppy. Find other friendly dogs/puppies for them to play with the way they want and need to play. Redirecting them to a toy or game of fetch or tug-ofwar will go a long way to keeping their mouths off of us.

✔ Destructive chewing: Supply them with appropriate chew toys, enrichment puzzles and games to help teach them what they can chew on and what they can’t. Being proactive in raising a puppy will go a long way to not having a destructive chewer as an adult.

✔ Jumping on people or furniture: It’s up to us to teach how we want them to interact with us. Teaching an alternate behavior like sit or not engaging them when they jump, only engaging when they have all four feet on the floor, is reward enough to repeat a behavior that gains our attention.

Puppies repeat behaviors that work for them. If we don’t engage them while they are jumping but remain quiet and not give eye contact until they have all fours on the ground, they will quickly learn that keeping their feet on the ground gets our attention. Being proactive by meeting your puppy’s instinctive physical, mental and emotional needs will set a precedent for appropriate behaviors that will manifest into a healthy, well-adjusted adult dog.